Winner of the 2019 Stonewall Book Award—Israel Fishman Non-Fiction Book Award
Using bisexuality as a frame, Go the Way Your Blood Beats questions the division of sexuality into straight and gay, in a timely exploration of the complex histories and psychologies of human desire.
A challenge to the idea that sexuality can either ever be fully known or neatly categorised, it is a meditation on desire’s unknowability. Interwoven with anonymous addresses to past loves – the sex of whom remain obscure – the book demonstrates the universalism of human desire.
Part essay, part memoir, part love letter, Go the Way Your Blood Beats asks us to see desire and sexuality as analogous with art – a mysterious, creative force.
"This wide-ranging, allusive, insistently self-interrogating book argues that both our politics and our poetics need to eschew fixed categories to accommodate ever more creative, fluid and elective identities. It's a book that demands intense engagement: I quarreled with every page, and I was grateful for the quarrel. I was grateful, too, for its passionate reminder that we are always more mysterious than the stories we tell about ourselves."
"An elegant meditation on the slipperiness of sexual subjectivity, and on the powers and perils of naming sexuality."
"I was immediately struck by the intimacy of the writing. This short book combines essays and memoir to create something new, which fits his subject matter—bisexuality and desire—perfectly... I felt like he was in the room chatting away to me."