"This wide-ranging, allusive, insistently self-interrogating book argues that both our politics and our poetics need to eschew fixed categories to accommodate ever more creative, fluid and elective identities. It's a book that demands intense engagement: I quarreled with every page, and I was grateful for the quarrel. I was grateful, too, for its passionate reminder that we are always more mysterious than the stories we tell about ourselves."

Garth Greenwell, author of What Belongs to You

"An elegant meditation on the slipperiness of sexual subjectivity, and on the powers and perils of naming sexuality."

Katherine Angel, author of Unmastered: A Book on Desire, Most Difficult to Tell

"I was immediately struck by the intimacy of the writing. This short book combines essays and memoir to create something new, which fits his subject matter—bisexuality and desire—perfectly... I felt like he was in the room chatting away to me."

Lydia Barnes, The Cardiff Review